In Ecclesiastes 3, we read "There is an appointed time for everything, and a time for every affair under the heavens." I think of this verse because there are times when I feel a great urgency in praying to God and other times when I know that he has heard me and I do not need to ask anymore. I let the Holy Spirit be my guide. I could twist God's arm, cry, and beg from him, or just smile at him and whisper my wish and let go at that. That's why I love the Father ~ as long as you love him, he is most tolerant with your behavior.