The healthiest wholesome relationship only exists between God and us. It is based upon agape, the unconditional, unselfish love Jesus has demonstrated by his life and death. This is the standard by which all other relationships are to be judged. Too many people are emotionally involved with others (even with their pets or other inanimate objects) in unwholesome ways. Such unhealthy, improper relationships must be shed if you ever wish to grow holier.