Many who do not believe in the Church often give the reason that they do not like organized religions. If that's the case, then do they have a one-to-one relationship with God? Do they ever kneel and pray to God on their own? I doubt it very much. I believe that it's a pretext they use most of the time for not wanting to submit themselves ~ the pride again. "Don't tell me what to do" ~ you hear that all the time. Pro-abortion people are like that. Nations are like that. People want to be their own god and we end up with billions of gods and a chaotic world. Disobedience (pride) is the root of all disorder.