I still remember when I first learned how to drive a car many years ago, I read that a head-on collision is something that I should avoid at all costs ~ it's the last thing you want on the list of accidents. I have always remembered that. May I say that in planning your future, eternal separation from God should be the last thing on your list of destinations. In fact, it should be deleted from the list if you possess any good sense at all. Therefore, aim for the only item left on the list, which is eternal union with God. Choose it without reservation.