Any time I have something troubling me, I go to the Lord ~ I know that he has a solution for me; in fact, for any problem you may have ~ no doubt about it! But sometimes you do have to search your heart hard to get in touch with the Holy Spirit dwelling deep within you to find the solution. This is "fun" because you know that you'll have peace when you receive the answer. Often the situation doesn't change externally ~ the Holy Spirit simply helps you perceive the problem correctly and shows you how to deal with it. God is always understanding and reasonable. He loves to help us if only we'll trust him. You can never lose with his help.