Jesus asked Peter, "Do you love me?" and Peter answered "Yes." And Jesus said, "Feed my lambs." He asked Peter a second time and Peter said yes again. And Jesus said, "Tend my sheep." After the third time with the same question and answer, Jesus said, "Feed my sheep." I am sure that the Lord asks each of us the same question at one time or another, even though we might not be attentive at the time. If our answer is also "Yes," I could just hear the Lord follow with the natural request "Surrender to me."